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|A baker's dozen on sex|
Cunnilingus is oral stimulation of the female genitalia. Not to be confused with Noam Chomsky - a cunning linguist - this is as good as it gets for all concerned. For most women, it is the provider of the most pleasure possible from another person. In fact, many will only experience orgasm during appropriate provision of this delightful stimulation. This runs counter to a lot of misinformation about sex, that promotes the idea that intercourse should be enough. If you're a Conservative Christian that has to be in the missionary position. Sadly, this erroneous concept lowers the quality of sexual relations for large numbers of men and women alike.
When in doubt, try it. Ask what feels good. If results seem slow in coming (sorry!), just keep doing it as long as she wants you to. Keep paying attention to what feels good. If she says to keep going exactly the same way, don't worry if your jaws and tongue get numb, just keep doing it. Also keep in mind that when you think you're "done", you might not be. Ask, or gently continue. Don't just stop.
No, really... don't stop.