Sub space
I don't think that anyone is "vanilla" I just think most of us are smart enough to not discuss it too often. ;-)
I'm sure someone, some where just really likes face to face sex, with pretty words, and lots of touching - and nothing else. But how boring!
I swear it's a conspiracy to make us all feel awkward as fuck.
Sex? yeah! I sware to god, if it didn't feel good, no one would ever fucking do it.
Do you know how stupid looking real actual "I have ten mintues before we fall asleep or wake the kids' type sex looks?
God fucked up there, man.
I'm with WfG on this one. :-) Add in the faces we make during sex and you have to ask what God was thinking?
Some comedian said "monkeys swinging from their rope trees at the zoo, hooting at you is more sexy than what I look like when I come".
I must admit. I loled.