Safe words
Safe words
That must be an amazingly hard thing to deal with. "I have these as my limits". "you passed my limits" the person is going to say "so what, gonna turn me in". Cause I pretty much assure you, you walk into the police or Court and say "yes, i let him do X, Y, and Z, but he also did A - and that's not consentual". they would laugh at you. yet it's still non consentual sexual acts at that point.
By the way, the words "I don't do drama" are such a fucking cop out of integrity and responsibility. It is a way to tell yourself it's ok not to listen to people when they say they are being abused, bullied, etc., in any forum.
That is quite a ridiculous case. one could argue that ear piercing, or "worse" is consentual harm to teh self. One could argue that doing sports such as a marathon, or an iron man, where your body is pretty much torn up, is consectual harm that should therefore be outlawed. And i suppose no one is allowed to fight in the UK in the ring?
Right. being in a ring with some other guy making your face into jello is "macho" and "cool" and "perfectly normal". but asking someone to spank you is not.... gotcha.
Piercing has always been a very odd one, because it's effectively legal to piece anywhere for jewelery, but to do it as a temporary thing for a corset piercing or just for kicks is... different? As one person said in a blog somewhere "you can break your skin because it looks nice, but not because it feels nice".
Any article opening with "Maggie Mayhem is dressed like a kinky dictator" is going to be awesome.
sounded like a kinky children's book to me. (wierd, my cat is now sleeping on the pillow. i have dumb cats)