Talk:Elevatorgate

Alternate angle
Could there be the potential that Dawkins was being critical of Watson's tendency to go after issues that are not of pressing importance?
 * I doubt it. If he was, I think he would have been much more overt about it. 19:56, 30 September 2014 (UTC)
 * I'll come in stronger than that. No.  No way.  Not a chance.  Ikanreed (talk) 20:08, 30 September 2014 (UTC)
 * Also this is Richard "I had a little jar of honey" Dawkins.  He's been known to go after issues that are not of pressing importance himself.  21:15, 30 September 2014 (UTC)

Is this a blog or wiki?
no encyclopedia should ever have a sentence start with "Seriously, watch the original video". aren't you supposed to capture events and facts instead of telling people what to do? this is not how encyclopedias work --92.193.109.106 (talk) 08:15, 22 December 2014 (UTC)
 * Hi. I've put some links on your talk page which explain what we are about.--Bob"I think you'll find it's more complicated than that." 08:33, 22 December 2014 (UTC)
 * RationalWiki is not supposed to be an encyclopedia, neither in style, nor in width of coverage.--ZooGuard (talk) 10:28, 22 December 2014 (UTC)

Only in Social Justice Bizarro Universe

 * Seriously, watch the original video; her only comment on the incident was to say "guys, don't do that". No shaming, no naming, no ranting. She has never said anything more than that; she did not accuse the man who accosted her of rape, she hasn't given any more details about him (and nor has anyone else), so no doxxing either. This was the impetus for years of hate. Decide for yourself if it warrants the following reaction:

The Elevatorgate controversy was never about the video, or her remark. The controversy erupted, because Rebecca Watson introduced Rape Culture and nuked Stef McGraw with it, when the very limited discussion was about double entendres in a confined space. Ms Watson accused "people in this audience right now" (McGraw was mentioned before) that they would laugh back down rape victims who stood up for themselves, and would believe that men could sexually objectify and assault women if they wanted to [ca. 15min]. This over-the-top smear and delivery caused the flame war (gross misrepresentation from a podium towards a member in the audience who would never be able to defend herself). Abbie Smith wrote "Bad Form, Rebecca Watson", and PZ Myers wrote "Always Name Names". Both of these articles are specifically about the CFI talk — not the video, not the "guys don't do that remark". All of those previous things were only added in retrospect, since, as the article notes, nobody cared about it before. "Dear Muslima" wasn't a response to Rebecca Watson, but to the flame war about something "slightly bad" (PZ Myers agrees here with Richard Dawkins!). This, too, was later retconned. Then, Rebecca Watson made it about herself, with "Privilege Delusion" where she also calls for a boycott of all things Dawkins. This was, yet again (just like the contentious issue in the CFI talk) swept under the carpet.

Dear Muslima
So, Zooguard, what is your exact problem with the sentence "It started with a video by Rebecca Watson about sexism in the atheist community and caused controversy for Richard Dawkins after he wrote a blog post in response that started with "Dear Muslima"."? I'm asking since I'm not seeing the objection, whether it be called a blog post, a comment, a letter, or whatever. "A communication in reponse", if you want to be pedantic. --Castaigne2 (talk) 19:10, 26 January 2016 (UTC)
 * It was a series of comments on PZ Myers' blog, not, for example, a stand-alone post on Dawkins' blog. (By the way, the fact that the article mentions only the first comment is one of its shortcomings.) The lead is supposed to be a summary of the rest of the article, explaining in a few words the article's subject and its importance. I think that the sentence I wrote falls within that function.--ZooGuard (talk) 19:19, 26 January 2016 (UTC)
 * That's where I'm confused. So, the quote that starts with "Dear Muslima" was NOT written/posted by Dawkins anywhere, but were made up comments? Then why are we quoting it? --Castaigne2 (talk) 20:05, 26 January 2016 (UTC)
 * Yes, it was. But it was not a letter and it was not a blog post. It was a comment on someone else's blog. That's why, when you kept reverting to a version that called it a blog post by Dawkins, it got reverted straight back. It's a simple inacuracy. Queexchthonic murmurings 20:08, 26 January 2016 (UTC)
 * OK, but if I say it was a comment, as others have done, that gets reverted too. Why would that be? --Castaigne2 (talk) 20:10, 26 January 2016 (UTC)
 * These are changes you made that called it something other than a comment:
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 * I can't find an edit where you called it a comment. Queexchthonic murmurings 20:17, 26 January 2016 (UTC)
 * I didn't say I did. If you check the fossil record, it's been done before, and that was not acceptable. But that's beside the point; why erase the whole thing if all it needs is a single word change? --Castaigne2 (talk) 20:28, 26 January 2016 (UTC)
 * I mean, according to the archive, the comment itself was written by Richard Dawkins. Was that a person trying to fake him or something? --Castaigne2 (talk) 20:10, 26 January 2016 (UTC)
 * Calling it a blog post is a needless inaccuracy. Why on earth did you try to fight over it? Queexchthonic murmurings 19:22, 26 January 2016 (UTC)

"about sexism in the atheist community" Is that the correct phrasing? I'm not sure the original encounter was labeled as sexist so much as just crude. 21:26, 26 January 2016 (UTC)

Nobody will talk about the "dating advice"?
People, I'm new to this, but nobody talks about that video and I think it's pretty important. If Rebecca really wants to make the world a better, less sexist place, why did she find appropiate to treat men who didn't understand what the elevator guy was doing wrong like sociopaths literally incapable of treating women as anything other than sex objects? Those men asked her for dating advice. They wanted to know what was the correct way of doing it. And how did she reward their desire of learning? She told them to buy dolls and fuck them. If you hadn't hear about this: no, I'm not kidding.

This was not like the anime Monster in which the protagonist tells the villain he can't go around killing people, the villain asks him in return "Why not?" and the protagonist is left speechless because there is no way of explaining it to someone that doesn't get it. If some people needed additional explaining besides that from the initial video, she could and should have provided it. Treating them like sociopaths, dehumanizing them as much as she believes they dehumanize her, is definitely NOT the way to fight casual sexism. After something like that, you cannot possibly think that Rebecca Watson is faultless. Conflict solving requires understanding from BOTH sides. And such understanding is what BOTH sides of this conflict (not just one of them) have sorely lacked. Not getting it makes this article biased. &mdash; --Lord Nox (talk) 09:53, 27 May 2016‎ (UTC)


 * Okay, her reply was a bit snide, but your comment kind of comes off to me as being terribly offended that a woman doesn't feel obligated to explain to men how to hit on women without creeping them out. People are allowed to just ask you to stop doing something without providing you with a detailed lecture on polite behavior. Also, what "conflict" needs resolving here? A woman made an offhand statement that she was uncomfortable being hit on in an elevator (a closed space where you can't get away) at 4 AM, and in response a bunch of men went apeshit over a woman daring to say such a thing. Also also, RationalWiki is not and doesn't claim to be "unbiased". Have a look at RationalWiki:Newcomers. --Ymir (talk) 10:31, 27 May 2016 (UTC)


 * I KNOW that a bunch of men went apeshit over her. I know that, and of course I cannot defend it. But she wasn't talking to them. She was talking to people who had asked her about how to do it correctly. And of course that a woman is allowed to just ask you to stop doing something, but if you want to understand what you were doing wrong you should get a real explanation because that benefits everybody. You, her, everybody. Real social change comes from understanding, not from forbidding things when people don't understand why said things should be forbidden. Why is "rape culture" a thing? Because our culture portrays as good things that aren't good, but you need work and patience to point out why is that so and fight such conditioning. Believing in a rape culture that teaches wrong ideas, and believing that men who don't get it but are open to learning are little more than sociopaths incapable of seeing women as human beings, are two MUTUALLY EXCLUSIVE things. You have to pick one, and just one, of them. Tell me, whose fault is it? Culture or sociopathy?


 * If you think that the only conflict here is between a poor, faultless victim and horribly mysogynistic people you are missing the point. Those people exist, but they only represent (the nastiest) part of it. I bet you are proud of being "biased", because you want to promote rationality and freethinking (and that's a really noble purpose in which I wholeheartedly believe), but simplifying things to the point of making the strawman fallacy is not the way to do it. That much I know.--Lord Nox (talk)


 * Of course Ms Watson was not obliged to explain the proper way to approach a lady for sexual favors at 4:00 AM in a hotel elevator. This is never done if you are a man and she has not told you explicitly "I would like your rod in my pocket." If the lady is a lesbian then it is simply never done. Ariel31459 (talk) 21:45, 11 July 2016 (UTC)


 * She wasn't obliged to treat the people who don't get as sociopaths either. Because, BTW, he didn't approach her for sexual favors; he invited her to talk over coffee. He MIGHT have wanted sex, in fact he probably did, but it's not proven. And if unproven, I just don't know why everybody assumes it. At the very least, it doesn't entitle her to give such kind of "dating advice", because it's not so-bloody-obvious sexualizing as you might think it is--Lord Nox (talk)


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