Thread:User talk:Nx/Disingenious/reply (17)

There are always at least two sides to a story, Nx. And in this case likely many more. Unless I'm missing some specific moment when Human started targeting you for abuse or whatever starts these beefs, you and he are two of the worst people on RW to try to take the high ground against each other. If you have any interest in my assistance, I would be pleased to help explain Human's position to you as well as I understand it. I've talked with him a lot about how he feels about RW and how starting last year it turned his stomach to see sniping remarks from you on his talk page and elsewhere. I'm sure it cuts both ways and that you have your own recollection. I'm sort of guessing you've been saving diffs. I'm not going to bring my personal feelings about you into this other than to make one single point that anyone else could make just as well. The personal observation is that you seem to revel in conflict. It's not only things like predictably being drawn to any conflict to fan the flames, but seeming to almost need conflict so much that you do things to set the stage for what you know or should know will entail hours or days of fallout. I'm sure you disagree. And I'm sure you're finding it hard to resist your typical response of tossing me a tu quoque and ignoring everything I've said. The point is that, perceptions being what they are, it's pretty hard to be right all the time and it may not even matter if you are. If you've got specific criticisms of aspects of Human or anyone else's behavior that are upsetting you enough that you find yourself acting out, make them. I don't think anyone really cares if you're angry about it for a good reason that they can generally follow, but at least communicate an idea worth communicating man! Nobody cares if you think Human is a dick.