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just a humph
Clearly, i suck at writing, and/or suck at arguing and/or am just not as atubborn. A bully is more than a brat. More than a Jerk. even if he does not use fists. If he intimidates, threatens, or teases someone, we think of him as the problem. But i have in effect, just been told that girls who are - to borrow this set of words -- bullied into sex, are choosing it, adn it's their own damn fault. I don't get that. I get that some people are not strong. I get that the attraction of a chance to be in the spot light might carry the cost of sex - or else. In teh work place, we call this threat of not getting what the raise, or the good job, or the right office "sexual harrassment". But if a teen girl (OR BOY!) is pressured into sex they do not want, we just say "it's too bad, she should grow up", or "emotional pressure" is "not all bad". huh. I really really don't understand that distinction. other than, you know... girls want it. But i'm dropping it there, cause clearly i am either dealing with sommeone who doesn't care, or more likely, i'm not that good at getting my ideas across. but i'm putting it here. passive aggressive and all. (not really)Godot She was a venus demilo in her sister's jeans  00:17, 30 January 2013 (UTC)
 * When I read this, not long after you posted it, I realized that I agree more with what you were arguing. No one should say that it's the girls fault or that they should just deal with it.  At some point emotional pressure does become rape, but not at the "you need to have sex or I will break up" level.  For your point about education, girls should be educated that they should break up with anyone who says that.  The fact that Liberal never had any sort of sexual or romantic interaction with a girl strongly lowered his credibility on his POV and makes me less inclined to want to side with him.  Plus it's also been my observation that people who go for a long time without ever having a girlfriend or having sex make up their own incorrect ideas about relationships.   ఠ_ఠ  Inquisitor Sasha Ehrenstein des Sturmkrieg Sector 22:50, 5 February 2013 (UTC)