Forum:Looking for rational feminist reading, any suggestions?

I've always described myself as egalitarian, terms like "Rape culture" and "Patriarchy" are just very off-putting, but when I started reading about what is defined as "rape culture" I agreed with the content. Of course, generally when I tell feminists I'm an egalitarian, instead of a discussion it's usually jumped straight to "fuck you"s and etc. But legitimately I would like to read up on it -- I don't want to shut out information I might agree with. Also, on that thread about Marxists: "Every Marxist is guilty because red china and soviet russia killed millions" = "Every capitalist is guilty because capitalist nations have killed millions of people before"