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Holding opinions like that makes you an asshole, no matter if you keep them to yourself or not -- but please, keep them to yourself.

Actually, you're the a**hole. We all have certain thoughts in our heads that we would never act on. That is like saying that a man who has a rape fantasy is as much of an a**hole as a rapist.

But you have acted on it, by spouting off here.

I did act on it. I then apologized.

Holding bigoted opinions doesn't make you as much of an asshole as people who actively discriminate because of their bigoted opinions, but it still makes you an asshole. And having a rape fantasy is completely different from thinking that women should be raped.

Also what ListenerX said.