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Check your inbox

Hello, I sent you an email with my discord ID, let me know when you see it :)--WMS (talk) 22:26, 22 January 2021 (UTC)

@WeakMindedSkeptic I sent you a friend request. — Oxyaena ^Harass 22:53, 22 January 2021 (UTC)

Him again

https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/User_talk:Neiltyson1fan#Permaban_for_GeeJayK Neiltyson1fan (talk) 01:24, 24 January 2021 (UTC)

This is a better place for the discussion https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/RationalWiki_talk:All_things_in_moderation#GeeJayK_was.2Fis_a_ban_evasion_of_IPs_2804:214:81DB:72DF:1:2:CCA7:2F2C.2C_2804:14c:5b72:856c:e4a5:71f4:2df5:57fb.2C_and_2804:214:81de:615e:1:2:c299:18cc.2C_and_multiple_usernames Neiltyson1fan (talk) 01:39, 24 January 2021 (UTC)

Cooping

I am obliged to inform you that you are the subject of a cooping. See here-Hastur! (talk) 04:39, 29 January 2021 (UTC)

Just to give you a heads up before you vote for banning yourself

I'm assuming you didn't intend this one to be a vote rather than comment.[1] Knight Commander^{In Service}_{To Her}^Goatness 18:47, 29 January 2021 (UTC)

Your coop case

I probably wouldn't have even known about it if I hadn't pulled up recent changes to see what was going on and noticed this shit along with the then-ongoing ATM discussion. Yes, that was me removing horseshit from a certain pest from your page. You're welcome. Hope you are doing well. :-) 71.208.x.x (talk) 22:16, 29 January 2021 (UTC)

Question

Hey do you mind explaining what's going on with you, Raven, and Rosenklippe on Twitter. I gather that the claim you 'sexually harassed minors,' is supported by multiple users on United Anarchism. However, details are unclear, leading to presumably Morris trolling the wiki with it. I understand that is intended to get a reaction, you not having made any clear rebuttal to the allegations ain't helping. Judge Dredd (talk) 11:35, 5 February 2021 (UTC)

I've been trying to ignore them. Those "multiple users" on United Anarchism are lying out of their asses, using out of context screenshots and situations to paint a picture of me that is contrary to the truth. I made the mistake of trusting the wrong people and letting my guard down. I'd rather not get involved for my own mental wellbeing, since otherwise I'd be driven to near suicide from the stress of it all. Note that these same people who are accusing me, without evidence, of having groomed people also let minors into the NSFW section of their server. I don't want anything to do with it anymore. — Oxyaena ^Harass 11:46, 5 February 2021 (UTC)

Also, of course the details are unclear, because they're deliberately like that. These are lies and half-truths based on out of context screenshots, the testimony of obviously biased users, and God knows what else. One user hated me (Big Wes, now currently known as Valeria), we had a dispute, he (she?) banned me from his server and then as an excuse dug up screenshots of something that happened months ago to ostracize me. I had a nervous breakdown and wasn't in control of my actions during the response. People I thought were my friends turned on me in an instant, suddenly things that were perfectly okay now became hellspawn. I'm autistic, and so I blunder a lot as a result, some of the screenshots being spread around were due to miscommunications on both sides, and not to mention they're out of context. Others (including one from the Raven screenshot) were of private dms, and again, I wasn't in full control of my actions. I'm fucking mentally ill, the government has labeled me "permanently incapacitated." I nearly committed suicide several times because of this shit. The fact that Raven has these screenshots nearly drove me over the edge, as well as the fact that someone I trusted gave him screenshots. This shit is very nearly gonna drive me from the wiki. Raven doesn't care about the truth, he's just using this to milk his bullshit vendetta against me further. — Oxyaena ^Harass 11:56, 5 February 2021 (UTC)

Also, Raven's one to speak, big hypocrite that he is. The deleted user in question is Raven FYI. — Oxyaena ^Harass 12:03, 5 February 2021 (UTC)

Oxy these groups are a cluster fuck of toxicity. Why are you spending any time with them? There are so many forums online with amicable and supportive people. ShabiDOO 14:38, 5 February 2021 (UTC)

I've learned my lesson. — Oxyaena ^Harass 14:53, 5 February 2021 (UTC)

π weeks block.

In accordance with our procedures, you have been blocked for π weeks. Techpriest ^{(I am Alpharius! / / / )} 13:03, 6 February 2021 (UTC)

Interaction ban

This is a formal notice that you are hereby banned from interacting with User:CorruptUser and User:IveBeenFrank.

Specifically, you are banned from doing the following actions:

• Edit their user talkpage. This extends to subpages in their userspace and essay talkpages.
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Civility notice.

You are hereby expected to behave civil in discussions on RationalWiki. Moderators have free range to block you, starting with an upper limit of 12 hours, for being incivil without having to go through the Chicken Coop or ATIM. Techpriest ^{(I am Alpharius! / / / )} 13:11, 6 February 2021 (UTC)

Ex-Muslim woman

All my lolwut are belong to you. Helena Bonham Carter (talk) 02:43, 10 March 2021 (UTC)

I'm an ex-Muslim woman, yes. — Oxyaena ^Harass 20:50, 10 March 2021 (UTC)

Were you a convert who then gave up on the faith? ShabiDOO 21:47, 10 March 2021 (UTC)

Did you leave the faith before or after you qualified as a neurosurgeon? Helena Bonham Carter (talk) 23:52, 10 March 2021 (UTC)

How the mighty have fallen. Bongolian (talk) 00:06, 11 March 2021 (UTC)

Fuck off, I wrote that when I was 12. @Shabidoo I was raised a Muslim by my mother, who was a convert, yes. She actually was spied upon by the feds, wiretapped and everything, cause she converted and married a Pakistani. This was during the Bush era, she experienced the full set of discrimination and Islamophobia then prevalent in that era. — Oxyaena ^Harass 02:35, 11 March 2021 (UTC)

As somebody with significant experience with the Muslim community, roflmao-Hastur! (talk) 03:06, 11 March 2021 (UTC)

FYI, I was referring to your claim to being a neurosurgeon, not your religion. Since you were 12, I understand. Bongolian (talk) 03:50, 11 March 2021 (UTC)

It's just the way you wrote that post one would have guessed that you were the child of Muslim parents from a non-western country. Did your mother suggest you wear modest clothing? ShabiDOO 08:23, 11 March 2021 (UTC)

She wore modest clothing, remember I'm trans, and women in Islam only wear modest clothing outside of the household. Inside is a different matter. Wearing the burqa probably didn't help with the discrimination, but that's not on her. — Oxyaena ^Harass 12:12, 11 March 2021 (UTC)

Ehhh that's not entirely true. In Iran women would wear modest clothing at home if their family insisted if a male non-relative was visiting. It depended very much on class and how conservative they were. I could visit a home of an upper class family where nobody wore the veil, even wore revealing western clothes and had parties. In other cases, even in upper class houses, women would wear modest clothing if I visited though even then in some cases if we were only young people and the door was closed and their parents left the room the girls would take their headscarf off and always be alert to the sound of approaching footsteps. Meanwhile in a small village I never ever saw a woman out of modest clothing even while staying in a friends house for an extended period of time. When a European female friend visited she followed whatever other women did or what our hosts said they felt comfortable with. In most houses we slept in separate rooms in a few houses they let us share a bed as though it was the most normal thing (I rarely revealed being gay to anyone no matter how progressive or liberal they seemed...it was simply way too risky).

One curious thing about Iran was, as opposed to almost all other Muslim countries, trans women are partially accepted under Iranian law and surgeries do happen and in some cases the government will even pay for the operation. It's a crazy grey area. This was a bit of a surprise. Though one gay Iranian friend said it was a mixed blessing. He was caught and the police tried to push him into getting a sex change operation (as the idea of being gay but not wanting to be a woman was impossible to fathom for them). He left Iran. Every Iranian friend who moved to the West, if tehy were with their family they kept their modest clothing. If they were alone studying in University they never wore modest clothing except when their family came to visit. ShabiDOO 12:23, 11 March 2021 (UTC)

I imagine different people interpret their religious experience with mandated clothing differently. You guys are probably just projecting your experience onto the whole body of Muslims. Also shabi bear in mind a woman from Iran probably has a different experience from a convert in the USA.-Flandres (talk) 14:24, 11 March 2021 (UTC)

Yes Flandres I am quite aware that there is an enomrous difference in women being modest in different countries and huge differences within those countries. In urban Turkey and Azerbaijan I rarely saw headscarves while in Syria and Egypt if was fairly normal. I'm not projecting anything onto the entire Muslim world. My point is it is ridiculous to claim that some women living in Western countries aren't coerced by their family to wear modest clothing and that the solution of simply "asking" if they want to wear modest clothing is difficult because of that very coercion itself. That doesn't mean there should or shouldn't be bans, I'm simply responding to Oxy's ridiculous insinuation that it isn't a question about coersion and her even more ridiculous claim that people's concern about this is rooted in a Western colonialist attempt to save what they think are coerced women while they are actually free and can totally make a choice. ShabiDOO 15:00, 11 March 2021 (UTC)

I don't understand

I haven't seen you being nasty to anyone and the Ace guy seems to be really transphobic. I didn't expect transphobia to be tolerated here, let alone by a mod, but I also don't understand how anyone has problems with you. I never had any problems with you at all and I am sorry people are bullying you, since you seem to be quite a friendly person. Amarty (talk) 12:17, 16 March 2021 (UTC)

Oxy has left to deal with other issues in her life. But don't be concerned: she has left behind sufficient laundry items to manage her affairs. UncleKrampus (talk) 22:44, 16 March 2021 (UTC)

Your return

Apart from that little unpleasantness from shitboy, I’m glad to see you back. Chef Moosolini’s Ristorante Italiano^{Make a Reservation} 00:48, 19 March 2021 (UTC)

Thank you, I should be fine. — Oxyaena ^Harass 00:52, 19 March 2021 (UTC)

Welcome back. In future, if you actually do wish to go the self-ban route, please make a request on-Wiki, such as in on the Mod noticeboard. Thank you. Bongolian (talk) 01:05, 19 March 2021 (UTC)

You might consider not using "Harass" in your signature. It seems to suggest to some people that you like to be harassed. And that doesn't seem to be the case.UncleKrampus (talk) 04:09, 19 March 2021 (UTC)

It's touch in cheek. — Oxyaena ^Harass 04:54, 19 March 2021 (UTC)

Interaction ban

This is a formal notice that you are hereby banned from interacting with Ace McWicked.

Specifically, you are banned from doing the following actions:

• Edit their user talkpage. This extends to subpages in their userspace and essay talkpages.
• Reply to them in discussions. Participation in the same discussions is still permitted, but direct responses are not.
• Reference them anywhere on RationalWiki, directly or indirectly.
• Revert their edits in any shape, way or form through the mediawiki interface.

This sanction can be enforced by any sysop with incrementing blocks and attached talkpage notices. Repeated violation may result in another Chicken coop or ATIM case being raised against you with the potential for further sanctions. Techpriest ^{(I am Alpharius! / / / )} 20:47, 19 March 2021 (UTC)

"what genius idea of yours was it to give hbc sysop in the first place?"

Parse this for me. Do you believe that I had multiple ideas all about giving HBC sysop? Were you unaware of which idea I was acting on? Why "the first place?" Are you asking for me to elaborate on the details of how I began some much longer syllogism I don't believe I even made? Was that whole sentence just some kind of anarchist newspeak I'm too much of a square to comprehend? Let me guess, if I would only read Proudhon "what genius idea of yours was it to give hbc sysop in the first place?" would make complete sense to me, right?-Hastur! (talk) 06:49, 27 March 2021 (UTC)

Can you kindly not pollute my talk page, please? — Oxyaena ^Harass 08:03, 27 March 2021 (UTC)

Classic Oxy. Tries to dish it but can't handle treatment in kind-Hastur! (talk) 14:38, 27 March 2021 (UTC)

It seems Oxy cannot win with you Hastur. You get angry when she overreacts, and here you are clearly trying to get her to overreact and are getting angry that she doesn't. LMAO ShabiDOO 15:51, 27 March 2021 (UTC)

I'm going to start telling people that LMAO stands for Leftism/Maoism and is a far-left battlecry. Who's with me?-Hastur! (talk) 16:19, 27 March 2021 (UTC)

Stop acting like a three year old Hastur. Techpriest ^{(I am Alpharius! / / / )} 17:02, 27 March 2021 (UTC)

At least don't troll her on her own talk page Hastur. There are usually plenty of other opportunities. Play safe.UncleKrampus (talk) 17:34, 27 March 2021 (UTC)

Why’d you demote Pyramidtexts?

They’ve been here 10 days and have only made a handful of edits, mostly to their own userpage. I’d assume you know them off-site, but this suggests you don’t. Christopher (talk) 09:18, 27 March 2021 (UTC)

We pretty much hand demotions out like candy here, and you're allowed to demote whoever you see fit. If you have an issue, take it up in the coop. — Oxyaena ^Harass 09:30, 27 March 2021 (UTC)

I know how we hand demotions out, we don’t do it that quickly. I’m not starting a coop over something so inconsequential (I don’t think they’d abuse sysop rights), but I have promoted them for now. If in the future they’re active enough that they need sysop rights for anything I’m sure someone will demote them again. Christopher (talk) 09:39, 27 March 2021 (UTC)

Fair nuff. — Oxyaena ^Harass 09:59, 27 March 2021 (UTC)

If I may add, I don't really need sysop rights at the moment, as the main reason I made an account here is an article draft that currently lives elsewhere. So do whatever is best for the wiki or whatever, I won't get in the way. Princess Mononoke^{radio contact} 07:01, 29 March 2021 (UTC)

I'm sure making them a sysop had nothing to do with them identifying as gender fluid anarchists, right?-Hastur! (talk) 14:41, 27 March 2021 (UTC)

Don't feed this troll Oxy. ShabiDOO 15:51, 27 March 2021 (UTC)

You might get a kick out of this

The boat blocking the Suez is 1312 feet long. Chef Moosolini’s Ristorante Italiano^{Make a Reservation} 17:23, 27 March 2021 (UTC)

Okay, that's funny. — Oxyaena ^Harass 19:12, 27 March 2021 (UTC)

Your AFD

Just a heads up, there seems to be a problem with the formatting. Usually there's a whole little section with a bunch of links. Serene (talk) 03:23, 28 March 2021 (UTC)

I know there's a problem with the formatting, but I'm not used to setting up AfDs, ie I have no clue what to do. — Oxyaena ^Harass 05:33, 28 March 2021 (UTC)

The HAES topic

I'm not reverting your edit, but I think we should wait until Chris, Mario and UninspiringNickname give their opinions. As Wikipedia says, HAES is just a hypothesis that rejects the scientific consensus, so I think it's absurd to put a fringe idea on the main page for now. GeeJayK (talk) 06:23, 28 March 2021 (UTC)

It was well sourced, well edited, and Christopher only decided to revert it cause he didn't like it. Compare the two versions, and last I checked the scientific consensus isn't set in stone. I think it's disingenuous to smear it as "fringe." UN is a bigot, Chris reverted it unilaterally without consensus, and you decide to back him up cause why? — Oxyaena ^Harass 06:26, 28 March 2021 (UTC)

I've answered on Talk:Health at every size. GeeJayK (talk) 06:27, 28 March 2021 (UTC)

@GeeJayK You admitted you didn't read it on the talk page. You just barged in without knowing the prior situation. Next time educate yourself before charging in like a blind bull. — Oxyaena ^Harass 06:30, 28 March 2021 (UTC)

So you're back

What has brought you here?𝔖𝔲𝔪𝔪𝔞 𝔄𝔱𝔥𝔢𝔬𝔩𝔬𝔤𝔦𝔠𝔞 (𝔮𝔲𝔢𝔯𝔢𝔩𝔦𝔰) (𝔰𝔠𝔯𝔦𝔭𝔱𝔲𝔯𝔞) 23:02, 28 June 2021 (UTC)

I missed the community. — Oxyaena ^Harass 23:30, 28 June 2021 (UTC)

Fyi, your Ibans with Cory/Frank were lifted. Monet ^Ye 12:16, 29 June 2021 (UTC)

fellow anarchist

I have nominated u for the thing. first stop? Rationalwiki. Next stop? The state. 💖 ASELA^कुरा 💖 16:51, 12 July 2021 (UTC)

wait nvm u already rejected sorry whoops 💖 ASELA^कुरा 💖 16:52, 12 July 2021 (UTC)

So

Care to explain your removal of a talk page post and locking it? [2] UShistoryanalyzer (talk) 23:27, 20 July 2021 (UTC)

That BoN is guilty of ban evasion and is a past harasser of mine. — Oxyaena ^Harass 15:24, 21 July 2021 (UTC)

Specificity, please. I'm skeptical of your reasoning because of your vain rollbacking of fine edits, mine once included. UShistoryanalyzer (talk) 16:00, 21 July 2021 (UTC)

Your edits are anything but fine, and as for the reasoning, I'd rather not get into it. I don't wanna reopen old wounds. — Oxyaena ^Harass 16:56, 21 July 2021 (UTC)

"Punishment avoidance"

You've gotta be kidding me. I took a break because I was fucking pissed. And to be quite honest, it just pisses me off more. The asshole who compared himself to a rape victim gets off scot free, while the actual fucking rape victim is punished in his stead for losing her temper. How the hell is that right in any sane sense of the term? — Oxyaena ^Harass 20:51, 25 July 2021 (UTC)

I've unblocked you. You'll need to ask someone else to give your users rights back, I think only mods can remove your sysoprevoke. GeeJayK (talk) 20:54, 25 July 2021 (UTC)

Why would I need to request my rights back? That's just humiliating. When I first left I had no intention of committing any "punishment avoidance" because I was in the opinion I had done nothing wrong. I got incensed at UShit making a mockery of rape, and then I got even more incensed when Cory mocked me for getting incensed at the fact that procedure is considered more important than principle here. You can hardly blame me for getting upset. As for the Zionism thing, I get upset at anyone defending such an obviously monstrous regime. Note that saying "Israel bad" doesn't make me a supporter of Hamas. And who is Shabi talking about when they say a "half-Jewish person." Would they still feel the same if, say, Cory insulted a Palestinian for their views on Israel? — Oxyaena ^Harass 20:59, 25 July 2021 (UTC)

I don't know if you're talking to me or just ranting, but unfortunately I can't answer these questions. Pinging @Bongolian here since he was the one that put you on sysoprevoke. GeeJayK (talk) 21:03, 25 July 2021 (UTC)

I'm frustrated. Cory was mocking me, of course I would get angry at that. Why am I the one being punished and not he, the instigator? — Oxyaena ^Harass 21:05, 25 July 2021 (UTC)

Sysoprevoke was a very strange choice (what punishment was avoided?), and if it was designed to keep you away it’s clearly had the opposite effect. I have the technical ability to restore your sysop, but I’m not meant to use it and it’s not an urgent matter. I’m sure a mod will reverse this fairly soon.

Unless I’m missing something from the Israel argument, I don’t think Cory was mocking you. You definitely overreacted. Christopher (talk) 21:07, 25 July 2021 (UTC)

I'm a survivor of sexual assault, and the wiki's nonresponse to UShit's comment more than enraged me. Especially with the dismissive reactions to my concerns. It was a situation that called for tact, and Cory had none. As for the Zionism issue, yeah I'll give him that. That was more out of pettiness than anything else, so the responsibility falls on me for that mishap. But Cory isn't exactly blameless here. — Oxyaena ^Harass 21:10, 25 July 2021 (UTC)

Hell I was going to stay away until Bongolian placed me in sysoprevoke. The only reason I came back was because I was placed in sysoprevoke. — Oxyaena ^Harass 21:16, 25 July 2021 (UTC)

┌────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────┘ You said, and I quote, "Eventually, the wiki will have to decide whether it supports social justice or it wants to be a freeze peach haven for trolls and shitheads. You can't have both." So I made a pointless poll regarding just that, the majority of people voted for the "freeze peach" option, and you freaked out. I'm at fault because what, exactly? CorruptUser 21:25, 25 July 2021 (UTC)

First off I don't appreciate the term "freaked out," and second off the very poll itself was disrespectful. — Oxyaena ^Harass 22:04, 25 July 2021 (UTC)

The extremely unpleasant rape comment aside Oxy, you have been uncivil several times in cases that had nothing to do with USHistory. You have already been warned many times to knock it the fuck off with the insults and lashing out at people, and you have even been blocked and put on parole because of it. Oxy, that is not healthy. And yet you still keep doing it. No one gives the slightest toff whether you were "angry" or "provoked" or anything else. Consider that your sometimes extremely hostile and confrontational approach to issues is part of what escalates a discussion into something that "pisses you off" and then gives you the self-justification to insult. Most other users here are angry and provoked and don't say insulting and even offensive shit. Get a grip and stop with the pointless insulting of people and being uncivil. I believe you have alienated many users here or have long exhausted many other's patience. Knock...it...off...please. ShabiDOO 01:39, 26 July 2021 (UTC)

And why do you think the poll was disrespectful? CorruptUser 03:00, 26 July 2021 (UTC)

I thought the poll was hilarious, and I didn't think it wasn't meant to be threatening or confrontational. If we can't get a laugh out of interpersonal communications here, we are no better than the cesspool of fail over at CP and other internet shit holes. There's no need at all into doing a drama queen hissy fit over every little perceived slight. —cosmikdebris ^talk stalk 03:11, 26 July 2021 (UTC)

First off I don't appreciate the term "freaked out," and second off the very poll itself was disrespectful I would enjoy it if we could elaborate on this. I'm assuming "freaked out" is an ableist phrase in Oxy's eyes?-Hastur! (talk) 06:45, 26 July 2021 (UTC)